Bette Jane Wendland's Obituary
Bette Jane Wendland, 70, of Fort Myers, FL, loving mother and devoted wife, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 17, 2026. She was born on April 8, 1956 in Grand Haven, MI the daughter of Clare Dietze and Helen (Holmes) Dietze.
Bette is survived by her husband of 38 years, Randy Wendland, daughters Alexandra Wendland and Leahandra Buck (Paul), Step monster to Joel Wendland (Jayme Little), Nana to Harper Little and Eleanor Buck. She is also survived by sister, Diane Bowman, and brothers, Scott and Kevin Dietze, along with numerous nieces and nephews, cousins and friends.
Bette lived her life with an open heart and a radiant spirit that drew people to her wherever she went. She had a deep appreciation for life’s simple joys—especially the warmth of the sun on her face, which became a symbol of her optimism and enduring energy. She loved to travel and made it to 48/50 states. She had many talents that she used in the hospitality industry, travel industry, retail and child care. She was very crafty, enjoyed camping, especially at Higgins Lake, and she was always smiling. Her favorite greeting was “Hello Sunshine! How are you doing?”
Bette will be remembered for her gentle spirit, her bright smile, and her ability to make others feel at ease. She had a gift for turning ordinary moments into meaningful memories and left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know her. She is deeply missed and forever cherished by her family, friends, and all who were touched by her light. In honoring Bette’s life, we remember her not only for who she was, but for the love she gave so freely—a love that will continue to shine, just like the sun she so dearly cherished.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that you consider donating in memory of Bette to the Alzheimer’s Association. A dear friend in Wyoming is coordinating efforts to support research and care for those affected by Alzheimer’s disease - utilizing the link below, you can make a direct donation.
Website: http://act.alz.org/goto/FriendsofBette
The family will be hosting a Celebration of Life to remember Bette, in Michigan on July 25th for those that wish to join.
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