Harriet Edna Butcher's Obituary
Harriet Edna Butcher, a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully in Fort Myers, Florida, on October 29, 2024, at the age of 100. Born on January 28, 1924, in Washington, D.C., Harriet was the cherished daughter of Clarence, a skilled machinist, and Edna Eudy, a dedicated teacher.
Growing up in Washington, D.C., Harriet attended high school and was actively involved in various philanthropic organizations, where she developed a passion for helping others. She began her career as a bank teller at the Pentagon, where her professionalism and kindness made a lasting impression. It was during this time that she met the love of her life, Chet Butcher, on a blind date. Chet, then serving as the head of the U.S. Air Force Fighter Test Development Center, was stationed at the Pentagon and the White House. Together, they built a beautiful life filled with adventure, love, and commitment.
Harriet and Chet had two children: Judith Anne, who predeceased her, and Bruce Lawrence. She was also predeceased by her beloved brother, Milton Eudy. As a devoted grandmother to Bruce and Mary’s children—Naomi, Nina, Natasha, Nick, Cathryn, and Haydn—Harriet was an adored figure in their lives. Affectionately known as "GG" to her 10 (soon to be 11) great-grandchildren, she delighted in her growing family, always full of warmth and joy.
Harriet’s life as a military wife took her around the world, where she welcomed friends, dignitaries, and fellow military families with grace and hospitality. Known for her constant companionship with her poodles, she earned the affectionate nickname "Poochie" from friends and family alike.
After her family settled in Florida following Chet’s retirement, Harriet continued her life of service and community involvement. She volunteered for over 40 years as a “Pink Lady” at Lee Memorial Hospital, where her humor and compassion left a mark on staff and patients alike. Known for saying, "I tell people where to go," she brought warmth and humor to her volunteer work, embodying the role of a community guide in every sense.
Harriet’s legacy of kindness, dedication, and laughter will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She will be dearly missed by her family and her many friends in the military and hospital community.
A private memorial service will be held at Fort Myers Memorial Gardens, officiated by the Honorable Pastor Graham Stein, on November 26, 2024, at 4:30 p.m. Harriet will then join Chet at “5 O’clock Somewhere,” reuniting with him in spirit.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Hope Hospice or the Humane Society, honoring Harriet’s dedication to service and love of animals.
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