Monica H. Wilcox's Obituary
Monica Hether Wilcox, a vibrant, joyful, and deeply loved woman, passed away on May 3, 2026, just days shy of her 66th birthday. Born on May 5, 1960, in Trinidad to Stewart and Mary Alleyne. Monica was the youngest of ten children and grew up in a large, lively family that shaped her adventurous, spirited nature.
From an early age, Monica was bright, full of life, and full of laughter. She had an undeniable love for music and dancing—if a song was playing, Monica would be the first to move, filling the room with energy and joy. Her fun-loving personality and natural warmth made her someone who never met a stranger and easily formed lifelong friendships.
In Trinidad, Monica built a strong work ethic and a fearless approach to life. She worked in government service with the Service Commission and even tried her hand at welding with her brother Basil—a testament to her willingness to explore new paths. She was entrepreneurial, often preparing and selling food to generate extra income, and was known for her resourcefulness and determination. Adventurous at heart, she spent many days embarking on outings with her brothers, embracing life with curiosity and excitement.
In 1986, Monica was blessed with her beloved daughter, Kemba. Monica was a devoted and unwavering mother, supporting Kemba through every stage of her life and encouraging her passions, from dance to music and beyond.
In 1994, Monica moved to the United States in pursuit of new opportunities and a brighter future. There, she worked in the manufacturing of medical devices for hospitals and later in home caregiving, always bringing compassion and care to those she served. A fierce advocate for education, Monica achieved a remarkable milestone by earning her Associate’s Degree around the same time her daughter graduated high school—an extraordinary moment that reflected her dedication and perseverance. She went on to pursue a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration and became a licensed optician, eventually managing an optical practice with professionalism and pride.
Monica retired at 55, but retirement only fueled her zest for life. She embraced her passions fully—traveling to all 50 states by motorcycle and RV with Craig, playing steel pan and other instruments, creating beautiful stained-glass art, gardening, and managing properties with her skilled, handy nature. Her adventurous spirit and creativity continued to flourish, inspiring all who knew her.
Monica cherished her family deeply and found great joy in traditions such as family holidays and “Pizza Fridays”. She will be remembered as a radiant light—fun-loving, vibrant, and endlessly full of life. Her laughter was contagious, her presence uplifting, and her love unforgettable.
Monica was preceded in death by her parents, Stewart and Mary, four brothers: Basil, Brian, Ashmore, and Desmond, and her sister Donna. She is survived by her loving daughter, Kemba, and her siblings: Naomi, Benjamin, Aletia, Maria, Ina, and Yvette; countless nieces and nephews; many other family members; and friends whose lives she touched with her warmth and joy.
Her legacy lives on in the music she danced to, the lives she uplifted, and the love she gave so freely.
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