Rafael M. Adames-Longo's Obituary
Rafael Adames Longo, 76, passed away on July 15 in Fort Myers, Florida surrounded by his loving wife and family. Rafael was a devoted husband, papi, and abuelo and he will be greatly missed.Rafael was born on December 13, 1940 in Bayamon, Puerto Rico. In December 1961 in the Bronx, New York City, he married the love of his life, Nydia M. Rodriguez-Zayas, and their fifty-six year union was filled with adoration, friendship, and unyielding commitment to family. Upon moving to Illinois, he earned a B.A. from Northeastern Illinois University, pursued a long career in social services in Lake County (IL). Rafael and Nydia raised their five children in Zion, Illinois, and he will be remembered as a dedicated father who worked hard to support and nurture his family. Later in life, Rafael and Nydia retired first to Morris, Illinois and then to Fort Myers, Florida.Rafael was the epitome of a life-long learner. As a veracious reader, his extensive library of books and music spoke of his great love of themes like history, spirituality & social anthropology. Often the first one awake in the morning, he enjoyed his quiet mornings reading with a cup of coffee. Rafael always had thoughtful wisdom and perspective that he passed onto his family. He leaves a strong legacy of Puerto Rican culture, appreciation for global issues and compassion for people from all walks of life.Rafael is survived by his five children, Rafael Adames (Elizabeth), Ariel Adames, Nydia Adames-Petty (Bryan Petty) Nydia Robinson (Anthony), and Ivan Adames (Elizabeth). He is also survived by seven grandchildren, Ashely & Chrissy Petty, Giovanni Adames, Tyler and Arielle Robinson, and Zoey and Alexis Adames. He was preceded in death by his siblings Juan Adames and Sister Dora Adames – and his grandson Bryan Robinson.Immediate funeral ceremonies are private. Arrangements for Rafael’s final care have been entrusted to Fort Myers Memorial Gardens Funeral Home, 1589 Colonial Boulevard, Fort Myers, Florida 33907, (239) 936-0555.The family is grateful for condolences that can be sent to Nydia Adames at 6194 Royal Woods Drive, # 1, Fort Myers, FL 33908. To share a story or photo, leave a tribute or to offer condolences to the family at this difficult time please visit Rafael’s memorial webpage at www.fortmyersmemorial.com and sign his guestbook.
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