Joyce Gipson
I have memories flooding my mind during this hoiday season and Bob is one of them. My own love, Ed Mysliwiec, best friend and brother-in-law to Bob, passed away this past August. He grieved for his friend every day. He loved him as a brother and they couold finish each others' sentences. Bob was so kind and loving and generous to us when we visited in 2019, staying at Whiskey Creek where his late son owned a home. He made the best soup for our dinner and I can still taste it in my mind. Ed and Bob both had cancer but you would never guess it from how they lived their daily lives. He had a small shrine to his beloved Nancy, Ed's sister, in his unit and joyfully pointed it out. I know how he felt because I felt the same about Ed. Part of your heart and soul goes with someone you love deeply and the deeper the love, the deeper the grief. Shirley was a delight as well when we sought her out at her workplace. Ed loved Shirley and she was so kind, phoning Ed on special occasions and more. Nothing can replace a personal phone call because hearing a voice is reassuring and soothing. Thank you, Shirley, for your kindness. You have a good heart. I just had to look this up today as I think of my own love and getting through this holiday and every day without him to touch or talk to. Merry Christmas to all the Melkos and thank you for your friendship. Joyce