My mom was the most generous, kindest, and strongest woman I knew. She taught me the value of helping others while at the same time, not taking shit from anybody. She taught me how to be independent and how to take care of myself. She taught me patience and understanding. However, all the lessons could not have prepared me for the great sorrow I feel with her loss. Itâ??s difficult knowing I won't be able to hear and see her laugh (those who knew her – knew she had a great sense of humor), I can no longer hug her, can no longer snuggle in bed with her watching TV and much more; but somehow, I hope I can still feel her warmth. She was the brightest light in my life. The bond we shared was so strong. If I needed, she got it. If she needed it, I took care of itâ?¦ we just always had each otherâ??s back. She guided, advised, and encouraged me to make the most out of life.She lived to see her 72nd birthday, to graduate from college, to get married, to have 3 girls, to see a grandchild, a great grandchild, to see me graduate from college, to see her 3 girls grow into strong beautiful women and become successful. Although there are many things she did notâ?¦ she didnâ??t see me get married and start a family but I know she will be there watching over me. I will always think of her and smile. Although I may not be able to see or hear her, I will continue to visit and talk to her.My mom suffered a lot towards the end. Although I lived over 500 miles away, me and my boyfriend Manny drove down a lot to see her. Thanks for your love and support and for being here to help me get thru this. She fought hard and did all she could to deal with her condition. Near the end she grew weak; not knowing how much more she could take. What comforts me now, is that my mom is finally at peace. She gets to move freely now, no longer gasping for air, no longer struggling or in pain. Iâ??m thankful I had her as my mom. We will always have the memories and ability to reminisce and cherish those. May she rest in peace.
